A VICTIM OR A PERPETRATOR ?
Exploitation and Victimization very
much exist and may go up to any level,
It could be of either kind, mental or physical
and personal or professional.
Power and
position are often known to turn people into fierce competitors,
And those
far below in the hierarchy, probably end up becoming sufferers.
Exploitation
often stems from a deep rooted human trait of discrimination,
And that of having
insecurity, thereby soon turning into a compelling obsession.
Obsession
possibly, eventually drives an exploiter to becoming a perpetrator,
And he soon starts
victimizing others, thinking himself to be far more superior.
Another interesting
facet of the relation between the victim and the perpetrator,
Is a very
subtle dividing line between the two, acting as a thin band or separator.
And this
factor, very subtle indeed, is interestingly that of an individual perception,
So irrespective
of what appears to be, it may be just the reverse of the actual situation.
A victim
could be the actual perpetrator and the victimizer the one who is the victim,
The equation
between the two is so subtle, that chances of others finding out are dim.
The mind
games that people play are of an incomprehensible and complex nature,
For all
those who are outside the scenario of that of the victim and the perpetrator.
What makes
all the difference to the actual reality of this wicked game is perception,
Often the
cleverer one of the two, ends up giving it an altogether different dimension.
Confused? Well
it is a complicated situation, understood only through your experiences,
Purely depending
on how long or how deep you have been in either of these influences.
My appeal to
all the perpetrators, disguising themselves as victims, playing with emotions,
Is to stop
playing these dangerous games and be open and forthright about all the relations.
You may succeed
and fool the entire world but your own conscience you can never evade,
For ‘ how well you have lived your life’ is what matters
and not ‘how well you have played’
You have a rare gift...the gift of translating emotions into words. Many can write poems but few can touch the soul...God bless!
ReplyDeleteThank you Edith, for your kind words!
ReplyDeleteThank you Edith, for your kind words!
ReplyDeleteThank you Edith, for your kind words!
ReplyDeleteThank you Edith, for your kind words!
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